In his book Social Intelligence: The New Science of Human Relationships, Daniel Goleman explores how the latest findings in biology and neuroscience confirm that we are hardwired for connection and that our relationships shape our biology as well as our experiences. Today, we know that the need for connection is more than a feeling or a hunch. A decade ago, the idea that we’re “wired for connection” might have been perceived as touchy-feely or New Age. From the time we are born, we need connection to thrive emotionally, physically, spiritually, and intellectually. I also love knowing that I can help you and that you trust me.” Connection begets connection.Īs a matter of fact, we are wired for connection. It helped me so much to know that I’m not the only one who does stuff like that. In fact, a couple of weeks later, Ashley said, “I can’t tell you how glad I am that you called me that day. And we both felt strengthened and fulfilled. Even though it was scary, I was able to reach out for support and help. I define connection as the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued when they can give and receive without judgment and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship.Īshley and I felt deeply connected after our experience.
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